Well in my case, I think the reason why i'm acting so clumsy or "malamya" is that I grew up without a father; I was raised by my Mom, Grandmother and three Aunties. Moreover majority of my relatives are women, as well as my friends but despite of me having no father I'm happy and contented with my life, for God gave me a wonderful family and true friends. I thank them for loving me regardless of my actions, for helping me build up the right character I need when facing tough challenges, for encouraging me to have trust in myself on whatever path I take and for just simply giving me words of wisdom in times of problems.
Other people call me a homosexual but it doesn't matter to me anymore for they don't know the real story of my life, why I'm acting in such manner and I believe that God looks within my heart not on my clumsy movements.
From all the theories on human development, Lawrence Kohlberg's moral development is near to my personal life. I grew up following the rules of my family and was afraid to contradict them. My grandparents are strict to us, their grandchildren, even they allowed us to play outside, they were very much strict in terms of time. They did not want us to be coming home late at night and they did not allow us to go to the city in a long time. When we did not follow them, they got angry to us and lecture us.Our grandfather was very strict, that's why we always follow him. Because of that, we try to avoid more pain so we follow him. I grew up with following every rules and I reasoned everything with moral. My friends always ask me for advises because they find me having an ethical principle in life. Their parents also trust me, they thought that their daughter are safe and won't do any naughty acts if I am with them because I am trustworthy. Those personality are developed in me when I grew up.
Lucas, Farah Kristine L. (201011011. BSCE) SOCI103-V25
The nearest theory of human development in my life is the Lawrence Kohlberg’s stages of moral development. I grow up with my Grandmother and my auntie because my parents are both having their work but we live in same compound. When I was a kid until now they were always strict on me I don’t know if it’s because I’m an only child or for other reasons but I think they are just protecting me from what bad things might happened. Another is sometimes I need to do my best for what I’m in so that I could live up with their expectations my family as well as other people who know me because they we’re always saying that look at your cousin she’s successful and such things like that. My family also teaches me good behavior as means of dealing with others, treating them good, respecting and concerning with them.
In my experience in my life. I can say that the theory that influences me the most is the cultural determinism because as i grew up in my life my friends have influenced me the most and i have easily adapted to cultural environment of different kinds of people here in our society. I have learned the different kinds of attitudes in our society and so I will have different approaches to them. People have different attitudes so we have to learn what are they in order to have good relationships with them. In the society that we live, we need to know the cultures and norms so that we can deal with them appropriately. Having respect with other people will do you good. Treat them properly and they will also do the same.
MULANO, Kriszia E. (201011734) 2nd year - BSCE/V25
From all the theories on human development, the nearest theory that I can relate in my personal life is the Lawrence Kohlberg’s stages of moral development. As we all know, Kohlberg’s theory has three stages of development: preconventional, conventional, and postconventional.
During my childhood days, the preconventional stage fits in my experience in the sense that whenever I commit a mistake, my parents will give me a punishment like I won’t be allowed to play with my cousins. Moreover, if I have an exam during my primary level in grade school and I got a perfect score, my mother would treat me to the mall and, she will buy me new toys, shoes or dress that I want.
For the conventional stage, I can still remember that my parents and sisters will tell me that whenever we will attend a social gathering I must always move modestly and I must be a “good girl” or else, other people will think that I am not raised properly and that I am rude. As a further matter, they also advised me to do what is right because they don’t want my younger cousins to say that they learned the wrong action from me. They want me to be a good example to them.
Lastly, postconventional stage in my life is merely about my life now because I always value my principles and I only agree with other people if I think his or her principles meet mine and if he or she really knows how to use his or her conscience.
CHAN, Paula Elaine L. (201030127-BSCE) SOCI103 V25
Freud’s psychosexual development theory is the human development theory that I can relate to my personal life.
During my childhood days, I’ve experienced the phallic stage wherein I am most comfortable with my father rather than my mother. My auntie would call me ‘papa’s girl’ since wherever my father goes I always follow him. I have trusted my father rather than my mother in situations where I needed advice or opinions from my parents. I can say at that stage that I am attached and at ease in expressing my feelings to my father rather than my mother, which is coined as the Electra complex.
After that, I entered the latency stage wherein I kind of have a strong defense against my parent’s will. I started to become distant to my father’s will and became close to my friends. I have enjoyed the company of my friends and have concentrated my attention on different academic and extra curricular activities in school like clubs, competition, hobbies and many more. I have developed my social groups outside my family.
Finally, I’ve reached the genital stage wherein I long for the independence or detachment from my parents. I want to prove that I have the capacity to decide for my own but at the same time not neglecting their guidance in my life. I became responsible for my own decisions or actions and can face the consequences that resulted from it. This is the time where I confronted and try to resolve my own conflicts created from my childhood and build what I am as an adult. I always keep in mind that my parents are there to support me and also to give me some advice since we can’t deny that they have more experience in life than we have and definitely knows the best for us.
FERNANDO, Gillian L. (201010579/BSCE) SOCI103-V25 Lawrence Kohlberg’s theory of moral development is the most near in my personal life. For the three stages of this theory, preconventional, conventional and postconventional, are all involved in the way I grew up. When I was a child, all I want is to play and to be loved. I hate to be scolded by my parents, it was annoying but then I can’t avoid committing some mistakes as it is part of growing up. In this first stage, I used to go and play with other children and came home late, for not following my parent’s rule I won’t be able to play on another day. I learned to avoid certain behaviors only because of the fear of punishment, not because I see them as wrong. There is also a time in my life that I already know how to determine the difference between what is right and what is wrong in a situation. I also make moral decisions based on what best serves my needs. I considered moral by the society that I used to live in, attempting to be seen by peers as a good person. I always try to maintain social order and based my actions to society as a whole and following the laws and rules of that society.
Lumines, Mark G. (201011289-BSCE) SOCI103-V25 Among of all the human development theories I say that the closest in my real life is the Lawrence Kohlberg’s theory. All I want in my in my life is to be happy and not to be scolded, I just want to play and play all the time and want my parents to accept me for who I am. I just want to them to love me for what I am doing. Because I am a very wild person things won’t go well because they cared for me that they won’t allow to do what I want to do. I don’t want to follow the rules of my parents because it’s so annoying and giving boredom. But in time there is a time that I knew how to determine what is right and wrong, that is the time when I want to stop what I am doing and just go to my parents and wait for their instructions to follow. But this stage I know what is right and wrong but in my self my body still want to play and go wild, that why I still end up swaying my parent’s rules. But this time I now make my own decision because I am at the right age to make my own life. Although I still get my money from my parents so I still have to follow their rules but not all their decisions is followed. I also sometime agree with other people if their rights are true or right to be followed. This is the reason why this theory is what’s suit best for me.
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Well in my case, I think the reason why i'm acting so clumsy or "malamya" is that I grew up without a father; I was raised by my Mom, Grandmother and three Aunties. Moreover majority of my relatives are women, as well as my friends but despite of me having no father I'm happy and contented with my life, for God gave me a wonderful family and true friends. I thank them for loving me regardless of my actions, for helping me build up the right character I need when facing tough challenges, for encouraging me to have trust in myself on whatever path I take and for just simply giving me words of wisdom in times of problems.
Other people call me a homosexual but it doesn't matter to me anymore for they don't know the real story of my life, why I'm acting in such manner and I believe that God looks within my heart not on my clumsy movements.
CORTES, Samantha Isabel (2010 10718/BSIT-DA)
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From all the theories on human development, Lawrence Kohlberg's moral development is near to my personal life. I grew up following the rules of my family and was afraid to contradict them. My grandparents are strict to us, their grandchildren, even they allowed us to play outside, they were very much strict in terms of time. They did not want us to be coming home late at night and they did not allow us to go to the city in a long time. When we did not follow them, they got angry to us and lecture us.Our grandfather was very strict, that's why we always follow him. Because of that, we try to avoid more pain so we follow him. I grew up with following every rules and I reasoned everything with moral. My friends always ask me for advises because they find me having an ethical principle in life. Their parents also trust me, they thought that their daughter are safe and won't do any naughty acts if I am with them because I am trustworthy. Those personality are developed in me when I grew up.
Lucas, Farah Kristine L. (201011011. BSCE)
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The nearest theory of human development in my life is the Lawrence Kohlberg’s stages of moral development. I grow up with my Grandmother and my auntie because my parents are both having their work but we live in same compound. When I was a kid until now they were always strict on me I don’t know if it’s because I’m an only child or for other reasons but I think they are just protecting me from what bad things might happened. Another is sometimes I need to do my best for what I’m in so that I could live up with their expectations my family as well as other people who know me because they we’re always saying that look at your cousin she’s successful and such things like that. My family also teaches me good behavior as means of dealing with others, treating them good, respecting and concerning with them.
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In my experience in my life. I can say that the theory that influences me the most is the cultural determinism because as i grew up in my life my friends have influenced me the most and i have easily adapted to cultural environment of different kinds of people here in our society. I have learned the different kinds of attitudes in our society and so I will have different approaches to them. People have different attitudes so we have to learn what are they in order to have good relationships with them. In the society that we live, we need to know the cultures and norms so that we can deal with them appropriately. Having respect with other people will do you good. Treat them properly and they will also do the same.
MULANO, Kriszia E. (201011734)
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From all the theories on human development, the nearest theory that I can relate in my personal life is the Lawrence Kohlberg’s stages of moral development. As we all know, Kohlberg’s theory has three stages of development: preconventional, conventional, and postconventional.
During my childhood days, the preconventional stage fits in my experience in the sense that whenever I commit a mistake, my parents will give me a punishment like I won’t be allowed to play with my cousins. Moreover, if I have an exam during my primary level in grade school and I got a perfect score, my mother would treat me to the mall and, she will buy me new toys, shoes or dress that I want.
For the conventional stage, I can still remember that my parents and sisters will tell me that whenever we will attend a social gathering I must always move modestly and I must be a “good girl” or else, other people will think that I am not raised properly and that I am rude. As a further matter, they also advised me to do what is right because they don’t want my younger cousins to say that they learned the wrong action from me. They want me to be a good example to them.
Lastly, postconventional stage in my life is merely about my life now because I always value my principles and I only agree with other people if I think his or her principles meet mine and if he or she really knows how to use his or her conscience.
CHAN, Paula Elaine L. (201030127-BSCE)
ReplyDeleteSOCI103 V25
Freud’s psychosexual development theory is the human development theory that I can relate to my personal life.
During my childhood days, I’ve experienced the phallic stage wherein I am most comfortable with my father rather than my mother. My auntie would call me ‘papa’s girl’ since wherever my father goes I always follow him. I have trusted my father rather than my mother in situations where I needed advice or opinions from my parents. I can say at that stage that I am attached and at ease in expressing my feelings to my father rather than my mother, which is coined as the Electra complex.
After that, I entered the latency stage wherein I kind of have a strong defense against my parent’s will. I started to become distant to my father’s will and became close to my friends. I have enjoyed the company of my friends and have concentrated my attention on different academic and extra curricular activities in school like clubs, competition, hobbies and many more. I have developed my social groups outside my family.
Finally, I’ve reached the genital stage wherein I long for the independence or detachment from my parents. I want to prove that I have the capacity to decide for my own but at the same time not neglecting their guidance in my life. I became responsible for my own decisions or actions and can face the consequences that resulted from it. This is the time where I confronted and try to resolve my own conflicts created from my childhood and build what I am as an adult. I always keep in mind that my parents are there to support me and also to give me some advice since we can’t deny that they have more experience in life than we have and definitely knows the best for us.
FERNANDO, Gillian L. (201010579/BSCE)
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Lawrence Kohlberg’s theory of moral development is the most near in my personal life. For the three stages of this theory, preconventional, conventional and postconventional, are all involved in the way I grew up.
When I was a child, all I want is to play and to be loved. I hate to be scolded by my parents, it was annoying but then I can’t avoid committing some mistakes as it is part of growing up. In this first stage, I used to go and play with other children and came home late, for not following my parent’s rule I won’t be able to play on another day. I learned to avoid certain behaviors only because of the fear of punishment, not because I see them as wrong.
There is also a time in my life that I already know how to determine the difference between what is right and what is wrong in a situation. I also make moral decisions based on what best serves my needs. I considered moral by the society that I used to live in, attempting to be seen by peers as a good person. I always try to maintain social order and based my actions to society as a whole and following the laws and rules of that society.
Lumines, Mark G. (201011289-BSCE)
ReplyDeleteSOCI103-V25
Among of all the human development theories I say that the closest in my real life is the Lawrence Kohlberg’s theory. All I want in my in my life is to be happy and not to be scolded, I just want to play and play all the time and want my parents to accept me for who I am. I just want to them to love me for what I am doing. Because I am a very wild person things won’t go well because they cared for me that they won’t allow to do what I want to do. I don’t want to follow the rules of my parents because it’s so annoying and giving boredom. But in time there is a time that I knew how to determine what is right and wrong, that is the time when I want to stop what I am doing and just go to my parents and wait for their instructions to follow. But this stage I know what is right and wrong but in my self my body still want to play and go wild, that why I still end up swaying my parent’s rules.
But this time I now make my own decision because I am at the right age to make my own life. Although I still get my money from my parents so I still have to follow their rules but not all their decisions is followed. I also sometime agree with other people if their rights are true or right to be followed. This is the reason why this theory is what’s suit best for me.